To the Miss Iowa Class of 2018, I say "Don't Compete"...

Let's talk about the difference between 'competing' in pageantry and 'empowering' through pageantry. 100% you should participate in pageantry, it's a life changing experience. But I was told that the amazing bonds formed between our Miss Iowa Class of 2017 was a very rare occurrence at the state level of pageantry. I decided to probe a bit on why that is. And I found that if you're focused solely on competing with other women you'll not get as much from the experience; if you empower each other you will gain best friends and heart-warming experiences no matter the outcome of your pageant. 

        I absolutely love being in the Miss America system. Showcasing intelligent women who have brains, beauty, and talents is so amazing! Our system is something to be proud of, something to share and celebrate with others. But rarely did I ever feel that I was competitive with other women during Miss Iowa Week. I felt excited to learn everyone's stories and experiences. We encouraged each other to continue our service and improve on our talents. Sure, standing back stage in a bikini next to, who I consider to be the 15 most attractive women in the state, is a bit nerve wracking. But even then we have to be cheering each other on from the sidelines until it's our turn! This is what empowering is. The dictionary definition of 'empower' is make (someone) stronger and more confident, especially in controlling their life and claiming their rights.

As pageant women, and women in general, we have to focus on building each other up every step of the way. Doing your best and encouraging others in pageantry and in life is the way to be a leader and a good friend. So whether it's your first time in a pageant or your age-out year- Empower and love one another